GregGodek

Love Sex Romance, blog no. 4
But is Romance COOL?? (Romantic Ideas for Him)

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Are you looking for romantic ideas for him? Well why didn't you say so?! 

It will help both of you to understand one of the major things that motivate men.

The male of the species is driven primarily by the desire to be cool. What about money, power and sex, you ask? They’re merely alternate routes to being cool.

The question of the day is, of course, “Is romance cool?”

• Romance is not cool if you define it as fawning, beseeching, insecure and obligatory. 
• Romance is cool if you define it as genuine, heartfelt, passionate, rule-breaking, risk-taking, confident-to-the-point-of-cockiness, outrageous, and creative. 

I know that many guys won't quite know how to be genuine, heartfelt or passionate. (Gals: Give 'em time!)

But most guys like rule-breaking and risk-taking. And they often like being outrageous and creative.  (Guys: Start where you're comfortable, and build from there. Practice makes perfect. Well, maybe not perfect...but a whole lot of fun. And that's good enough, isn't it?)

• Outrageous: Give her 10 pounds of M&Ms. Show-up after work dressed in a tuxedo.
• Creative: Write a list: "The Top 10 Reasons I Love You." Tape it to the bathroom mirror.
• Rule-breaking: Don't serve her breakfast-in-bed...Serve her dinner-in-bed.
• Risk-taking: Show a little affection in public. (Why should you care what "the guys" think?!)

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Greg Godek has come out of retirement to help make the world a better place by helping people to express their love more often and more creatively.